Making The Most Of Unemployment

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While most of the unemployed are out there looking for a job, some are considering other alternatives.  Everyone’s situation is different.  

 

I ran into a friend last week who told me he was laid off after five years on the job for a major telecommunications company.  In fact, the company's entire middle-management tier lost their jobs.  One clean sweep and all that was left was upper management, first-line supervisors and the worker bees.  The mid-managers were offered other positions—as worker bees making a fraction of what they had been making, so he turned down the offer. 

 

Instead of being worried or frantic at the loss of his income, he was quite happy.  He wasn't scrambling around for another job.  He had other alternatives.  Bob (not his real name) had been in the military, and had some years left to access his GI education benefits.  So, he was going to go back to school.  He had a few courses to complete for one degree and six semesters for a second, so he decided to take a year and a half off and return to school.  His military benefits, 92 potential weeks of unemployment and severance from his last job had him confident he could not only make it but enjoy the break. 

 

A lot of suddenly unemployed workers are finding out they aren’t so bad off after all.  You don’t want to be unemployed forever, but losing a job provides free time to go back to school, start a business, travel the world, train for a new career or just de-stress and smell the roses.  If you’ve been financially responsible, have some savings and are close to finishing up a degree like Bob, you can relax and focus on your studies and a fresh new career.   Or, you can just take your time searching for the perfect new job.   Here are some ways to make the most of your unemployment experience.

 

1.       Go back to school.  There are hundreds of exciting, lucrative careers that only require a two-year degree.  Accumulated college credits or a prior degree may be applied to the new degree program. 

2.       Reassess.   Was the job you lost your dream job?  Is it something you want to commit to again?  Losing a job is traumatic, but it’s often the break you’ve secretly been waiting for.  A lot of people stay in unfulfilling jobs for the wrong reasons and are happy they got the boot.  It’s sometimes harder to quit a job than have someone make the decision for you.  Apply for unemployment and take some time to explore your options.  What do you want to do with the rest of your life? 

3.       Downsize.   Some older workers are near retirement but still living in expensive houses or areas that require their previous full-time income.  In reality, it’s harder to find another job at the same pay if you’re over 50.  There are lots of jobs, but few are at the previous high salary with bonuses and stock options or other monetary benefits you counted on to support your current lifestyle.  You can give up the tennis membership and eat ramen noodles every night to pay the bills or you can downsize to cut expenses.  Use your time to put your finances in order, sell the house and resettle into a less expensive living space.  You may find a cozy house or condo on the water with enough space for an organic garden that will save on food costs as well.

 

Unemployment gives you some unexpected breathing room to really consider your future.  It can be an exciting adventure full of possibilities.  It’s a time to choose what you want to do or for the family to design a new life together.   Consider the possibilities and take advantage of a pause in life before you hit “play” again. 

 

 

 

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  • Shelly H
    Shelly H
    So true....I started my own small business development consulting business, meanwhile I have enjoyed my time developing my business, working to help my dyslexic son develop his own business and taking it to the next level so he can someday take care of his Mom....wish you all the chance to re-evaluate and find a new direction in life!
  • Frederick Funk
    Frederick Funk
    I am seeking a part time accounting/clerical in Monmouth or Middlesex counties in New Jersey position to supplement my social security.  Most of the web sites will not let me manage my alerts to fit these requirements.  Any suggestions?
  • Joan Koenig
    Joan Koenig
    The article was extreamly helpful to me.  It provided advice that I needed to get focused on other career opportunities, that I may be missing.Thank you,Joan
  • Loretta C
    Loretta C
    Hi Mary,You have made a good point.  While I've been laid off, I did exactly what you recommended, and went back to school to finish a degree.  The advice you offer to others is worth reading.Lorrie
  • Rhonda P
    Rhonda P
    Hi! I  think the article id good. I was in a good job and quit due to not being treated fairly. I never really saw this in my future. I am considering unemployment, plus going back to school.You are never too old. I think the older you get the wiser you become.Thanks, Mary Nestor Harper great article.Rhonda
  • Glenn D
    Glenn D
    Very good overall, wise.
  • MARK D
    MARK D
    Being in that situation now @ 63 years old, I too am a bit relieved and considering my alternatives. I am not 'frantically' searching for another job but approach my day as a job search with intermixed opportunities for learning the new job application process, my alternatives, etc.
  • Mary Nestor-Harper
    Mary Nestor-Harper
    William, you have described the "Catch 22" of being older and unemployed.  You did all the right things...got the college degree, worked hard, have great experience and a lot of accomplishments in your work history.  Now, over 50, you are considered unemployable because you've got too much experience, are too expensive and may not have the technical education needed to make it in a computerized, digital workplace.  The tough reality is, this IS the new reality.  Most companies require on-line applications and resume submission or they won't consider you.  You have to learn the new process to even get a shot at a job.  Networking is still the best way to get an edge, but you'll still have to work the system eventually.  One thing Baby Boomers have is the ability to communicate face-to-face.  We can have an edge in an interview by being articulate and knowledgeable.  Show yourself as a leader and communicator that is open to learning and working with others.  Good luck on your search, and don't give up.
  • Joshua H
    Joshua H
    I enjoyed the column, thank you.  After 15 years in upper management I found myself out of work at 36.  Not having a degree it has been very difficult to find jobs that I am very suited for and comfortable because of the lack of a degree.  Going back to school is going to be in my future, but in the interim finances are difficult.  Keep plugging away...
  • William L
    William L
    This would be a great resource if everyone was a vet, had GI benefits to fall back on and didn't need to work. I am very thankful for all of veterans of any and every conflict they served in and they certainly deserve every benefit possible, but for the rest of us over 50 age discrimination is very real and a very ugly fact of life. We're always told to have experience, but once you get too much you are no longer a viable candidate for most positions. Younger candidates are cheaper, can supposedly work longer but do they have the work ethic that the baby-boomer generation does? I am finding that life without a job is cruel, thankless and frustrating. The new wave of internet job posting may save the HR department a lot of time but there are alot of good candidates getting passed over for jobs because their resume doesn't contain the right buzzword or phrase that some resume screening software is programmed to look for. Bring back the face to face interaction that got all of us jobs for many years. And for any employer out there reading this don't give up on us older workers, we have a lot to offer, are very dependable and may not retire as soon as you think.  
  • Joseph A
    Joseph A
    This only works if you have the resources saved to continue your lifestyle while unemployed. For the great majority of those who lose their job, they are not interested in travel they simply need to pay their bills. Most have a limited amount of savings and once this is gone they potentially lose everything they have. What you are describing is not mainstream and not what the average american is going through when they lose their job. They face fear, uncertainty and potential disaster if they can not find a new job within a finite timeframe.
  • Walter S
    Walter S
     I think that the article was ok., For a person over fifty and the company that they worked for which had financial problems and went out of business, The courts awarded everything to the company and the employees got nothing, not even help for re- training so they could go back to school and learn a new skill and be employable again.  When you are near sixty , it's hard to get a job because employers want younger employees so as to keep them for a longer period of time I feel that employers don't want to take an older person because they cannot give them the benefit of long term employment.  They also do not like to pay out all those benefits to older employees and then have then leave in a short period of time. to most employers using older employees is not feasible.  Please send me a response to my comments.  thank you.
  • Roberta H
    Roberta H
    It was a very good article. I would like to comment on the over 50, try being 60 and looking for a job. The last job, after 10 yrs., due to restructuring, I am out of a job. I have been in this type of work for over 30 yrs. I would like to pursue something else. I am tired of being told I don't have the experience in that field, well how do you get experience, if no one will hire you. My thing is, the people doing these jobs had to be given a chance in order for them to have experience. Good advise, just very frustrated, after 32 yrs in the Reserves, quote veterans preference. Sure, if you are in your 40's. Hoping for a miracle.
  • Annie A
    Annie A
    The article was very informative; however I would like for you to have expounded more on the people(like myself) that are over 50 and are having a heck or a time finding full time employment.  What are some more suggestions?  I am living comfortable with little bills as possible.  I am also working with the hardest hit fund program for mortgage in my state.  But my thing is when this is over I want to have a position in place that would let me pick my mortgage payments up without any problems.  Can you give some suggestions?    Looking for your response  
  • Sonja S
    Sonja S
    I enjoyed that perspective something to really consider since I am over the biological age of 50 though I feel and look much younger than my years. I don't ever plan on the retirement concept.  An active mind and young spirit never really retires, you ....rest a spell, reflect, rejuvenate and enjoy the next adventure....fulfilling your divine purpose. Ah!  what a great feeling!
  • Mary Nestor-Harper
    Mary Nestor-Harper
    Thanks for the comments.  It is heart wrenching to lose a job, but it also opens up other opportunities.  When you're locked into a job, you build something for someone else, but when it's your own, it's your reputation and legacy, as you said, Scott.  What an opportunity.  Keep searching for what you really love to do and then try to turn it into a business.  You'll find opportunities opening up when you least expect it.  I just found out today that I can get a Master's degree for no cost at a local college...met the age requirement.  What an opportunity!  My only regret is I could have started it three years ago!  Now I'm off to my next adventure as a student while relaunching my business. Don't ever give up.  Mary
  • Roberta M
    Roberta M
    My sister-in-law gave me the book :Who Moved my Cheese?"  This article runs parallel with the entire book. I am reassesing my situation and lifestyle as a result.  Being on unemployment made me realize that there is something better out there for me... I just cannot give up trying to find it.
  • Scott M
    Scott M
    Thanks as this article re-confirmed my thought process that this is all ok. I was told in August of 2011 my position of 21 years was eliminated and was offered another field position or severance and I opted for the severance. I am a firm believer as things happen for a reason as I was told in the same week I was laid off my dad had 6 months to live. He passed away late February and I was able to spend all the time I needed with him in his final days. I was looking for work during this time but in my heart I wanted to be in business for my self and to leave a legacy for my family to grow with. Having a job doesn't exactly give you that. I had to believe that and while unemployed I spent 50% of my time looking for work and 50% of my time learning how to be in business for myself. I researched and googled everything about financing, buildouts, work from home, business failures, business successes etc, etc, etc. In doing so I filled a legal sized notebook with do's and dont's, potential risks and successes, time commitments, fees and royalties. I would not have gotten all this from going back to school and have a much broader understanding of what it takes to be an entrepeneur. Every article I researched kicked me into something similar but may have had a different spin or take on the previous article. All in all I have not pulled the trigger yet but am close as to what best suits me. The biggest obstacle is buy in from family and that is inching closer to an understanding that life goes fast and do what you like. I have seen signs all around me that I am heading in the right direction its spooky. Post from friends on FB, things I hear and see on radio and TV, seeing articles on magazine covers while standing in line at the grocery store. I will rise to the top a little bit at a time and grow from there.
  • Michelle P
    Michelle P
    Yes, I lost my job of 4yrs. and I did go back to school. I loved it, that was last yr. But, I had a part-time job also. I lost that job, and now I'm fighting to keep my unemployment. I appealed.
  • Larry S
    Larry S
    This is a very good article that opens the thought process for evaluation and consideration of personal priorities and hard realities.  It encourages a more thoughtful and effective unemployment cycle.
  • Mary Nestor-Harper
    Mary Nestor-Harper
    Wow!  Great comments.  It's better to take some time and figure out what you really want to do.  Everyone deserves a break.  More education and a Masters will open up a lot of opportunities, especially if you want to change careers.  Your past experience and a new degree show you are up on the latest trends and the work ethic to be successful.  It is tougher after 50.  However, employers are figuring out older workers bring reliability, accountability and the ability to show up on time every day...something some younger workers can't seem to master.  Think young.  If you go into an interview thinking you're too old, it shows in your energy level and confidence.  Besides, I've heard that 50 is the new 30.  Age is just a number, not a sentence.  Keep current in your job or industry and show up with confidence.Best of luck in your job search, and in the meantime, enjoy the break!
  • Berry N
    Berry N
    The article in my opinion serves as an eye opener to most people who lost their job and spend time lamenting instead of turning it into an opportunity.  
  • Susan Y
    Susan Y
    very good..have been thinking re: topics in the article...like taking this time to reassess... it is difficult, because guilt...you should be looking for work and guilt, because you want to just smell the roses and think of the next step.
  • Yolanda W
    Yolanda W
    I, too, am considering other alternatives. I was already in school  earning a Masters degree in Mulitdisciplinary Human Services, just one month from graduating, however my finances were not as in order as I would have liked. Although, I feel comfortable enough to take a breather for a short period. The current position I had was not my dream job, but I would like to remain in the same industry, education, but in a higher career level, making a must higher income for the educational credentials I have obtain through earning a masters degree. I am not going to sweat it now, but will continue to seek employment at a even pace, seeking a position I will be happy with. The only concern I have is whether i will find something I would be happy with since I am 50 years old. Most employers are slow about hiring individuals at that age. Should I be extremely concerned?
  • Eleanor P
    Eleanor P
    I recently lost a job and your article was very encouraging. I thought is was the end of my world but am finding that going back to school might be exactly what I need. Thank you!

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